Monday, 18 November 2013

Finding the best of friends.. (My Friends)

Everyone needs the best company they can find and people don't understand how important it is to have the best of friends! They are the people who you spend most of your time with.. They have the biggest influence on you..

The prophet (s.a.w.s) Said: "You are better off alone than with bad company"
Well how right is he (S.a.w.s)...

If your seen with a group of people who smoke and you don't.. the smell will rub off on you and people would think that you're part of them.. right?

If you're seen with a group of guys and maybe you're relationship with them is completely normal and innocent but people will think that your in a relationship with one of them... You're reputation will go down the drain.. They'll probably call you a slut.. At the end of the day you know its true, even if you are blinded by the guys 'Sweetness' O.K IF YOU SAY SO.


Anyway.. I feel like people need to hear about the type of friends I have.. BECAUSE you better go find some like mineeeee!

Jokes, I feel like maybe some of you don't realise who "GOOD" Friends are.. and maybe if you compare yours to mine you can find out if your really mixing with the right crowd..

The first thing I would like to say about my friends.. is that THEY are the reason I am who I am TODAY. and I know that might sound cheesy but its true. They are the reason I started wearing Hijab, They are the reason why I am motivated to study the Deen, they are the reason WHY I do this blog. And honestly this is all because and for them..

This goes out to all my girlfriends! You need to know exactly what I think of you and you need to know that I don't want you guys to change in anyway! People need to know what friends are really about...

NOW LISTEN UP! :) please.

DISCLAIMER: This is in no particular order.. I Love all my girls so SHUSSH!

hehe!

Okay, Might wanna get some tissues you know cuz things about to get personal! You know what im Sayyyyinnngg! LOL :P

1. Right so the first person I'm gonna talk about is my beautiful friend ANISHA! Right so firstly, This girl is the only girl in our group of 7 who doesn't wear hijab.. Now when are you gonna start gurlll!! You're ruining our look!! GOSH! (Jokes..not joking jokes.. 8-)) She is one of the most beautiful, smart and amazing person I have ever met.. I swear to God these girls are my sisters not friends.. She can come to my house and open the fridge like its her own.. She part of my family.. Everytime I see her or spend time with her Its like perfect every time! I wish that she lived with me and I love her to pieces.. I cannot believe God blessed me with her.. Whenever I see her I don't want to let her go! I can talk to her about anything and everything.. Ahh wow she's mine, If anything every happened between us (Which In Sha Allah wont) I will probably stay in my room all day and wont eat or anything and just pray that she came back to me! (Okay now i sound like a perv) BUT YEAH!! :P Honestly, She prays, fasts and everything! you would never expect it! I love the way she's so strong about her opinion and she won't say what she doesn't mean..! She will never stab you in the back.. Instead she'll come and say something to your face if your wrong! Whether you like it or not! I pray in sha Allah in time Allah gives her the strength to wear hijab cuz tbh thats all she needs! I Don't even need to worry about her because She's PERFECT! and she's my blondy and I love her so much and she is amazing and she's mine. k. thanks. bye.

I could say more about all of my friends but I think i would need to create like 6 blog posts about each one and that's just too much!! :| lol

2. Next person will have to be... HENA!!!! Now this girl.. I have one word to describe her.. A FIGHTER.. I have never ever in my whole LIFE met someone like this girl.. OMG! She is the strongest one out of ALL of us put together! and you know the funny part is that shes the smallest.. hehe (sorry hena) LOL But its true this girl is Incredible.. If there was anyone who Shaytaan would need to fight to divert, it would be Hena.. She strives to become a better Muslim and I swear that's where my inspiration is from.. I have never seen anyone so deteremine to try her best no matter how hard it would be to follow the deen! Incredible.. I cannot describe her well enough because this doesn't do justice.. I love her so much! I look up or down ummm kinda to her! LOL she's amazing.. She is the definition of Allah's words when he says " If you walk towards me, I will run to you" She did exactly that and Allah gave her the best! And I pray Allah gives her the strength to carry on as she is.. The Prophet ﷺ said, “When Allah loves a servant, He tests him,” [Tirmidhi]. .. And honestly I wish Allah loved me as much as he does with Hena.. Such an amazing person.. If there was anyone I would go to for strength it would be her.. Love you so much <3


Oh gosh, Got a bit teary eye there! LOL

Okay next.. 2 down, 4 to go!

3. Next is.... IQRAH!! Omg, Honestly when I first met Iqrah I was scared as Hewwwwlll! She has one of those like bitch stares that can CUT right through you! :( LOL but that's the funny part cuz she's like so amazing soo different!! Our first convos were just incredible! lol (Marriage and all) LOL But anyway.. Iqrah.. Has to be the person who I underestimated.. Let me give you a quick background on Iqrah.. A* Student, Beautiful, Non hijabi to hijabi (So grateful I was there to witness that) And just such a strong minded person! NO ONE! No one on this EARTH can take down haider! NOTHIN! She has morals! Shes strong, she will never go against what she believes in! NEVER I TELL YOU!! If there was anyone I would choose as an Older sister it would be Iqrah.. She would tell me straight!! LOL Slap me silly if i did anything wrong! But thats what I love about her.. She soooo easy to talk to and people don't understand that.. Its the face.. :P jokes!No honestly.. I love her to bits! We have the most jokes! Maths time.. <3 NAUGHTY!!! LOL ahh gosh, I think thats the thing I miss about her the most.. She has been there for me through everything! I learnt strength from Iqrah.. <3 Such a Strong beautiful woman..

4. Okay.. NEXT! urmmm Let's go with my beautiful AISHA!!!!!! Right, The first I would like to say about this woman is she is the most elegant, classy lady I have ever met in my life!! Like seriously, this girl seems like an angel.. So pure and clean.. The way she walks, talks, eats and everything is just perfect and elegant.. I actually find it hard to believe at times.. I feel like a tramp around her even at my best -__- LOL No jokes but still.. This woman.. is one of the most strongest woman ever! She is the definition of a perfect daughter! I have never met someone so pure and strong the way Aisha is.. And honestly.. I give most of the credit to Aisha's Mum.. You think Aisha is incredible.. Can you IMAGINE her mum!? No you cant.. She is the reason why Aisha is the way she is.. And Sometimes I wish I was Aisha's Mums friend than Aisha  8-) LOL jokes I do but I love Aisha so much.. Such an Incredible person.. So passionate and such a Girly girl! Omg! She's Beautiful.. She is my role model out of everyone in our group.. Such an inspriation.. You know its crazy but you can actually see the noor in her face.. Masha Allah So beautiful.. Her appearance is like an angel! She so easy to talk to! So beautiful.. I look up to her soo much! I would class her more like a mum than a sister honestly! The funny thing is.. shes the youngest out of the group!! LOL I love her.. Everyone needs an Aisha in their group.. <3

5. Wooo!! okay 1 more to go! Next up! My Tazzzyyy Spazzyy! LOL Omg this girl makes me laugh.. Shes such a posh girl! She is also a fighter.. Such a strong person yet sooooo gentle!! I always look out for taz like a little sister! Shes just everything I would love my daughter to be.. <3 Its so funny shes actually one of those people where she would ask for someone's opinion, even though your opinion wouldn't change her mind! LOL She such an incredible passion for history! You wouldn't expect her to be! But when she is passionate for something she will strive until she gets it! And that's one thing I love about her.. I remember when she would come to me and say how she wanted to change and actually make that change without question! It would make me soo happy! She would also put Islam before anything and tries her best to be the best muslim she could be.. No one could tell Taz otherwise! She would try her best to work towards something no matter how hard it may be.. She would be such an amazing mum! I wish she lived in my house and told me off for all the stupid and careless things I do.. -__- lol.. Another amazing point about Taz is that she doesn't live for anyone! She doesn't live to please people! If she's happy then she doesn't care! I wish that I had that quality about her.. She can say NO! Live to please the Creator not the creation.. <3

6. Okay, Finally... Drumm roll.. Last but not least.. My cutie IKRAAAAA! Ikra, Is the oldest and the most immature out of all of us! She such a cutie though.. omg! She's soo amazing! She strives and tries her best to be the best Muslim she can.. The day she told me she wanted to go Hajj literally melted my heart.... She's so passionate about Islam.. I wish I spent more time with her.. We had soo many free times to talk about Islam.. We would go on for hours and hours! She made me more and more passionate about Islam every time I would speak to her it would be like my spirit was re lifted! I don't know what gift she has but Damn! I wish she was with me all the time to help me out throughout the day.. She's so beautiful and I swear she doesn't look a day over 15 -__- lool! The amount of change I have seen from Ikra is amazing.. She surprises me every time! Everytime I see her shes a brand new person! So passionate and always striving.. Everyone needs someone like Ikra to consistently bring you up! Its amazing how her personality is.. one moment she would be the most innocent and sweet person.. then the next if someone says or does anything to anyone she cares about she will fight back like a tiger!!! RAWR!!! LOL Amazing!! She is the only person who will stick up for you no matter what without hesitation!! She will tell you how it is!! That's why I love her so dearly.. So amazing.. Love you soooooo much! <3


Okay so!! DONE!! WOO! Sorry this was really long and maybe not relevant to anyone but I needed to give me friends credit for what I do.. I miss them no much and Cant wait to see them next!!

Any way.. Moral of this post.. It takes time to find the perfect friends and trust me I went to hell and back with past friends to get to where I am now but now I'm at a point where these are my True friends and I will never want to lose them over anything..

Trust me be patient and pray Allah sends you the perfect friends that will constantly remind you about your deen.. You need friends that will take you to Jannah! Not drag you to hell..

You company needs to be blessed by Allah..

And being around my friends.. I feel BLESSED! <3 Masha' Allah to all of them..


Thank you for staying till the end if you did..

Next post is about Music! Stay tuned.. (See what I did there) :P

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