The Importance Of Parents

Parents...

What will we do with them and what will we do without them!

Parents are the most important people in your life... Have you ever stopped and thought about what your parents have done for you?..how much joy they bring when you think or even look at them...? 

Well have you ever thought about how much pain you cause them too..

If anyone hurt your parents what would YOU do!?

"Kids" nowadays don't realise the importance of parents.. instead they take it for granted. Most people won't even think twice about what their parents would think about the decisions they make..

You have the decency to go behind your parents back and commit a crime and then have the guts to LIE to their face.. WOW just shows how much respect you have for them..

I don't want to make this post long but I just want to put it out there that what comes around, goes around. One day you will have kids and just think, how would you feel if you knew your kids were lying to your face about coming home late or where your going and who your going to be with. How would you react?!

Imagine someone comes and disrespects your parents! a RANDOM person! what would you do!? You'll beat the living day lights out of him/her!!! Wouldn't you!!?? So how can you, the own child disrespect them..? Remember that Heaven lies under your mothers feet.. If you upset her then you have no chance of getting there..

Be careful with what you say to them and how you treat them.. People don't last forever.. You don't want the last time you speak to your parents be something that you will regret forever.. </3

May Allah keep us on the straight path and guide us and give our parents a long healthy life!

Ameen!

M... M... Marriage!?

I know, I know! Calm yourself!! No one wants to hear it or talk about it well face it, you're probably going to get married to that cousin of yours abroad and you will do anything you want to avoid it! Right!? Well if that's how you feel maybe you shouldn't be marrying that person! jokes. 8-)

So I'm not going to talk about the lovey dovey side of marriage even though us girls are freaking dying for it, and dream about the most beautiful wedding and PERFECT husband! Instead I'm going to talk about the things that people actually don't even know about the true beauty of marriage.

I wonder why a lot of youth now days put marriage off as a thing that they will get to after they finish UNI, or after they get a job and after they get money and after this and after that, and by then their hitting the big 30! And By then it'll be too late because all the people who were clever and YOUNG are all TAKEN! No more left for you.. :( 

What people don't realise is the beauty of getting married young and I don't mean 13 or something because this society has literally made it illegal too! But I mean like 18+ when maybe your mentally ready to..

Allah knows when you are ready for the responsibility of Marriage.. and NO it isn't all about the time you spend with the husband! When you marry a guy, you marry the family too.. So technically you need to be able to look after an entire family! Can you even look after yourself?! Allah will give you a man when you are ready In Sha Allah.

One thing that kind of realllllyyyyyyyyyy annoys me is when girls go on and on about marriage and marrying this PERFECT guy!

Marriage CVs be like...:

1. Handsome
2. Doctor
3. Hafeez
4. Alim
5. 6'0
6. Perfect
7. Looks after me

8. Treats me like a queen

9. Got his own house cuz I ain't be living with his parents -___-

10. Gotta have lots of monnaaayyy!
11. Oh and did I mention PERFECT, Yeah that too... :)

LIKE SERIOUSLY!? PLEASE, If you find one let me know!!! :|

Of course every girl and guy wants the perfect partner but the first thing you need to do is be the PERFECT person! When choosing the right husband look for DEEN! That should be the KEY! You need someone who will wake YOU up for Fajr and someone who always reminds you about your deen! SOMEONE who will take you to JANNAH!! Dont reject a PIOUS proposal! Dont chase this dunya, you need someone who will be there in this life as well as the hereafter! In Sha Allah

Surah 24. An-Nur, Ayah 26

Bad women are for Bad men, and Bad men are for Bad women; and pure women are for pure men, and pure men are for pure women. They are free from the slanderer's accusations; for them there shall be forgiveness and honorable provision from Allah.

See Proof! Good for good and bad for bad! It doesn't get any more simple!!

Marriage prevents you from SOOOOO much sins! like incredible! You would have wished you were married sooner if you knew how much.. Zina is the biggest sin that people commit because they dont get married!

As one of my best friends said " If your old enough to commit Zina, You're old enough to get married!" (Hena)

hehe! And its TRUE! If you can have a boy friend then make it halal and marry him!!? Unless its temporary then your loss. 

But anyway I'm not gonna continue to blab on about this as it's a hugeee topic! But I just wanted to put it out there that.. 

Don't expect perfect when you cant be perfect! 

PEACEEE! 

Xx

P.S for those looking for a spouse I recommend you watch this video!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unsynodgYc

Hijab and fashion

Now this topic is such a hot topic dayummmmm! Like WW3 within the sisters.. Now I advise myself before I advise everyone else but seriously there is a limit when you mix fashion with hijab..  There are 2 types of ways you can take this:

1. Wearing hijab but dressing decently that you still look good as you are representing islam in a modest way. 

2. Wearing hijab and you have every colour of the rainbow on you including your face. Camel hump, tight jeans, low cut top, bosoms out! Like WOW. I can tell what cup size you are from a mile away with that top on :| 

So yeah, I mean there are sooooo many debates about hijab and even girls having their own debates about it, but I thought I should give a little bit of advice and just a very open minded opinion and maybe you could agree with me.. 

So I have about 5 points that I would like to clarify... 

1. When girls say "my right, my life, my choice" and "I'm not ready". I'm sorry but this really annoys me. Fair enough hijab is your choice of wearing but exactly what is the choice that you made? You made the choice to follow Allah's command. You are following His order of wearing the hijab. So when girls say "I'm not ready" your basically saying I'm not ready to follow Allahs order yet. -__- seriously? If you say so! 

2. Hijab and makeup: OMDAYS. Okay now there is a limit to the amount of makeup you put on your face.. And I think some people go OVERboard. Like full on eyeshadow, lipstick and all that junk! And its not like it's an occasion is ERRRRDAYYY! Girls it's school not your wedding!! Daym! Makeup does defeat the whole purpose as your beautifying yourself even more when the whole point of hijab is to cover your beauty.. So relax woman! You don't need all that to look beautiful! Natural is the best way! 

 Like just to look decent thats fine because you need to look presentable of course.

 Wow makeup does make a big difference!

3. Hijab and fashion: okay this is a huge topic and people can go on and on about it but I just want to say that I see girls these days wearing the tightest jeans that it looks like it's painted on! Seriously! I even see girls with the tightest tops to go with it! Like I can see everything!!!  What is the point!? The first thing that Allah told us to cover in the Quran is our bosoms THEN our hair! Why do you think that is!? Allah doesn't say these things without a coincidence! It's all for a reason! Another point is the ankles!! Wthhhhh seriously! They role up their trousers that's like the more obvious thing in the book! Cover them! It looks silly!!! Allah knows everything of what you do.. 

4. Hijab and relationships: okay let's take the time to just laugh about this. Seriously this is soo common now that it's considered "normal" I don't even have much to say about this other than take your hijab off if you're going to rub of some guy! Astagfirallah! -__- disgusting 

LOOL 

5. Hijab and character: I think this is the most important point out of all. Sisters, you represent islam more than any other human being.. When you help and elderly , smile at the world you represent islam! Obviously our reputation has gone down the drain thanks to "some girls" (point 4) But You give dawah in that type of way.. Your actions inspire others! When you respect yourself and Allah, of course everyone will respect you! Guys will think twice before approaching you! 

You need to sacrifice pleasures for your reward at the end of the day and honestly that is the best type of reward you can receive trust me.. It's amazing when you do more research on it.. This world isn't worth it.. Don't make yourself cheap. The status of a woman is sooo high that if men knew they would want to be women! People may judge you and call you weird and all but The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Glad tidings to the stranger! So don't worry just know that Allah has something bigger in stock for you in Jannah. 

When you walk towards Allah, He will RUN to you.. Read that again! Your Creator will RUN to YOU! How amazing is that! 

In sha Allah, Allah makes it easier for us to be the best Muslims out there.. But it all works both way.. You need to start putting an effort it to get what you want..